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My Esoteric Healer


When always trying to be the Bigger Person becomes too heavy
Be done with being the Bigger Person? A softer way forward. Many people reach a point where they say quietly but frankly, “I’m tired of being the bigger person.” Not out of pettiness, but out of exhaustion. Exhaustion from carrying the emotional weight, holding the peace, or forgiving when it almost always feels one-sided. If this resonates, you’re not alone, and you’re not wrong for feeling this way. This moment is often the beginning of real healing. When ‘Being the Bigger
Feb 82 min read


Healing the Fear of Disappointing Others
Life often asks us to carry a list of expectations, to be kind, be available, be agreeable. And most of us carry these expectations on our shoulders most of our lives without a doubt. And while we strive to meet the world’s demands, we may quietly ignore the deepest call of our own soul. But here’s a truth the universe whispers: disappoint everyone else before you disappoint yourself. This is not a call to be selfish. It is a call to be aligned. To honour your inner truth, y
Jan 132 min read


Healing the Mother Wound
As we step into 2026, this piece is shared with the intention of bringing awareness to the mother wound, an often unspoken source of emotional pain that lives quietly in the subconscious. Awareness is not about blame or judgment, but about truth, validation, and understanding. By naming these experiences, space is created for reflection, compassion, and the possibility of healing. Our relationship with our mother is often the first place we learn what love, safety, and belong
Dec 31, 20253 min read


Returning to Yourself: A Spiritual View on Alcohol and Hypnotherapy
Many people reach a point where familiar habits like turning to alcohol begin to feel heavy. Often, it’s not the drink we’re seeking, but comfort, calm, and escape. But on a deeper level, this is the soul whispering that something within is nagging us attention. There is usually a deeper meaning behind the addiction. Alcohol is often a response to stress, old wounds, or unmet emotional needs. This doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means your inner self is pressing for healing, cla
Dec 21, 20251 min read
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